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CHANGE REQUIRES PRACTICAL APPLICATION

REMEMBER WHO YOU ARE

SERVICES

I provide coaching and counseling services. What's the difference?  Coaching involves setting goals and  establishing practical solutions to achieve them. Coaching is heavily action-oriented with an emphasis on the future. Counseling tends to examine the past and one's personal history. I find that combining elements and techniques of coaching with counseling is quite effective. 

* I work from home. I see no reason at this time to increase overhead by renting an office. Our sessions can be conducted in three ways:

-Weather permitting, and if you are local, in my home office. We may also walk nearby as nature is soothing.

- A Zoom meeting (you must have stable internet connection)

- By telephone (I will request a picture of you to establish rapport). I need to know with whom I am speaking.

Volta do Mar is a Portuguese sailing technique. Rather than sailing north directly into the headwinds, Portuguese sailors would head west and then turn north, thereby bypassing unnecessary turmoil and hazards. Picture an acute angle.

 

CLIENTS

I work with individuals who question their paths in life. To that end, I assist in helping you identify your vocation or, in the case of military veterans, recover and transition from your previous career. Many veterans have an internal feeling of a lost Self. My role is to support you in discovering who you are and what you desire for your life. I also work with clients experiencing gender dysphoria and  ANY sort of loss of identity which goes hand-in-hand with aging. When it comes to gender transitioning, it is not my place to affirm or deter. I address areas of career, relationships, life purpose, terminal/hospice situations, and expanding personal awareness for anyone experience the dilemma of being in this world. All individuals experience depression, anxiety, and suicidal reverie at some point. I view these as symptoms, exacerbated by environment and habits. Our work is to get to the root cause with "practical, applicable solutions" so your soul can progress. As your mentor, it is my role to help you set goals and support you along the way. The ideal client is open to change and takes accountability.

MEANING OF
VOLTA DO MAR

ABOUT ME

I hold an MFA from Goddard College, 2015, as well as an MSW. I am a member of Phi Beta Kappa - the oldest academic honor society in the United States. I studied clinical mental health counseling at the University of the Cumberlands and completed my clinical social work (MSW) degree through Fort Hays State University. I am certified in solution-based coaching as well. As a former professor, I write extensively. My most recent book, The Lost Art of Love, was an Indie Award Finalist.

I accept a limited number of clients. I do not work exclusively with gender variant clients as I prefer a range of issues with the core problem being existential crisis. I address grief, purpose, career coaching, end of life matters, and depression sometimes through a Hindu-istic lens. If you think we may be a good fit, by all means send me a message. Having said that, to potential clients who are struggling with gender, I want you to know I understand firsthand what it is like. When I was 18, I transitioned. It took a tremendous toll on my life thereby derailing a typical course of evolution. My perspective on the pros and cons has significantly changed over the years. I can assure you that how you feel at 13, 16, 25, and 30 will not be the same as you continue to get older. I wish someone had asked me the hard questions back then, but I wasn't willing or ready to answer them at the time. Nor were therapists adequately informed. Even now, reading about the issue in a textbook is no substitute for lived experience. I have lived as male for more than 18 years. I neither encourage nor discourage others when it comes to transitioning, but I do caution. My role is to ask questions and help you get to the root of your distress while offering insight and understanding - whatever the situation may be. I do not advertise who I am and this is why I do not post a picture on my business website. I value privacy, not exhibition.

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CONTACT

Williamsburg, VA

voltadomarco@gmail.com 

Tel: 757-514-9184

(leave your name and phone number, specify your age, and in a word or two indicate the presenting dilemma) 

* No texts

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